The Role of Appearances

    You can appear to be a person you're not by the way you dress, talk, and act. Dressing a certain way always says something about you, weather it's dressing good or bad. The way you speak and how you speak reflects where you come from. And by acting a certain way people are able to tell what type of person you are. Usually the way you dress and act will define (in school wise) with what type of people you'll be hanging out with because you'd probably get along with people you can relate too.
     In the period we are living in appearances take a big spot in our eyes. Just by seeing what a person you don't even know is wearing will make you judge them right away. In order to not look different you would most likely wear whats "in" or "the new thing" to impress the people that are around you. When you go shopping you might ask someone how a certain pair of jeans or shirt looks because you don't want to make a fool of yourself once you wear it after buying it. Opinion seems to always be important when its really not necessary all the time, because what you choose is what makes you unique from others. You don't need to buy your clothes at a certain store just because of the brand and because its what everyone is wearing. For one, what you might find pretty in another store might not be pretty at the other or maybe just cost more because of the brand logo. You have to make sure that whatever you get is comfortable while wearing it not just having the brand in front and making you feel uncomfortable. Be yourself, love yourself.
     Physical looks don't matter to me but instead the way they are by heart. I look into their personality not at what they are wearing and if their clothing looks expensive or not, none of that! Even by the way I myself dress and act would surprise you if you saw what kind of people I talk to. I don't go off of looks, I just become friends with whoever welcomes me in a friendship, having a nice conversation can already make you my friend. Money never even crosses my mind while seeing or meeting a person. Hopefully money never crosses my mind because well...it's irrelevant in a relationship. I won't want a friend or anyone for their money because thats selfish and thanks to God I've never had the need to come close with someone by money interest and hope I never will. It can be different depending in what type of person you are, maybe looks and money do matter to you...but would you want someone around you for what you have? Look into their hearts and personality not at what someday might be gone.